???

My Mum just said the weirdest thing to me.....

You are looking at possibly getting married this year you need to be preparing...deciding what kind of wedding you want to have...

-well neither of us want a big wedding, but i know if the family isn't invited there will be hell to pay.

-that depends they would want to, but it might be get married today cause he is being shipped out tomorrow and you have to leave. You need to be cooking, well you already know how to cook, but cooking and cleaning the house, and getting ready for marriage, to be all you can be, its alot to take care of.

-thats what i have been working on...???

that blew me away because in her mind we were just "friends" until a short while ago. And she didn't know why I was upset that he left for the army. I'm not sure if that was her way of saying she accepts and looks forward to it....or what.