There are two clubs here in town that T has specifically told me not to go to, and that he would never take me there. This was expressed when I brought up that a friend had invited us to the club and he was very very very firm in his answer. And it was an answer that I respected.

When T left for the army he told me to have fun. I did go to a club and had fun, told him about it and it was ok. But now...that friend or person has invited me again...

and being really honest I thought about going. Not that I would be into that kind of thing but it would be interesting to say the least. And I heard people saying "he told you to have fun, so go" Yet all I could think was those were the only two places he told me not to go to...and I should know better than to go and get myself in trouble...because that is the only reason why T would say not to go, because its not somewhere I should be...and he took it a step further..he would never take me. That signals to me, that its not a place I should be with or without him, he is trying to protect me.

So I passed on the invite...told them there are other clubs, and other places to hang out and have fun. I was proud of myself...and even though T doesn't know about the 2nd invite...I think he would be happy with my choice.

Oh and two of my co-workers that I helped hook-up are getting married in exactly one year...April 14th, 2007!!!!